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We Are All Monsters October 29, 2010

Posted by alana in Activism, Anger, Anxiety, Depression, Marxism, Mental Illness.
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Those of us who have experienced serious mental health problems have an acute understanding of what it is like to feel monstrous. Lurking in the shadows beneath the enormous weight of a cold and fathomless ocean, numb to pain but hissing a warning that tentacles are ready to strangle anyone who might attempt to move us. Tearing at pillows and stifling screams of rage into them, pacing behind locked doors to spare the would-be victims of a red-eyed, howling fury. Sweating, shaking, and paralyzed with shame as the shrieking banshee of panic rises to the drumming heartbeat drowning out the surrounding mundane conversations of people who have begun to stare. We know instinctively that monsters are repulsive, abnormal, dangerous outcasts – and we identify with them. And we’re not the only ones. The enduring, overwhelming popularity of monsters demonstrates that millions of people see something of themselves in the monstrous. We all celebrated when Maurice Sendak’s Wild Things “roared their terrible roars and gnashed their terrible teeth.” We’ve cried in empathy when Frankenstein’s monster declared, “I, the miserable and the abandoned, am an abortion, to be spurned at, and kicked, and trampled on.” Many of us have secretly rooted for King Kong to destroy his human attackers, and we’ve made mutants from the Incredible Hulk to Spider-Man to the X-Men our heroes. Why is that?

China Miéville, a Marxist science fiction and fantasy writer, offers this explanation in a presentation (well worth listening to in its entirety) on “Marxism and Monsters” that he delivered at the British Socialist Worker’s Party Marxism Festival in 2005:

“Why would we secretly have this kind of simultaneous repulsion but also attraction to these horrendous figures, to these monsters which are the articulations of fears? Well, what I’m going to suggest is that if you think of Grendel as the sort of archetype for the outsider monster that gets back into the inside, think about the way the outsider is so threatening. Who is the outsider the most threatening to? The outsider is most threatening to the people who are telling you that what’s inside is basically alright. It is very, very functional to the status quo that it mustn’t be messed with. Now, those of us who are Marxists, who are socialists, have a whole theory of what’s wrong with the status quo, but what we know full well that for centuries, for millennia, people on the receiving end of the status quo: the oppressed, the marginalized, the alienated, have always known (whether or not they could articulate it) – that something was wrong. That this was not how they deserved to live. And what this means, therefore, is that while King Hrothgar is absolutely horrified that Grendel gets into his hoard and starts smashing shit up – if you weren’t that in love with the status quo anyway, it could be worse. You know, all of a sudden the intrusion of this monstrous thing starts throwing things around, threatening the status quo; well, in some way that you’ve never been able to articulate, you’ve never really been that in love with the status quo anyway. So I think the fact is, the fact that monsters are such sympathetic figures, is in a tremendously inchoate, mediated fashion an expression of the fact that most of us don’t really love the status quo. And this is why, you know, we are products of our society, so we are repelled by monsters, but we are also products of our society that know something’s wrong with our society, so we kind of have a sneaking admiration for them.”

The etymological root of the word “monster” is an interesting one. It comes from the Latin word monstrum, which could mean a monstrosity, but could also mean an omen, portent or sign. It derives from the verb monere, which means to warn or advise. The appearance of monsters and the monstrous is a critical warning that something is wrong; a signal of a threat which should be paid heed to rather than treated as a threat in itself. In his 1974-1975 lectures on “abnormality” at the Collège de France, Michel Foucault describes how people who were physically, mentally and behaviorally aberrant have been criminalized, punished, and disciplined in order to try to make them conform to the status quo, which is defined by its defenders as normal and sane. As Marxists, we would be more inclined to see monstrous expressions of alienation, pain or fury as symptoms of a sick status quo which itself should be changed.  (more…)

Discrimination and Depression (Fox News is a Public Health Menace!) October 22, 2010

Posted by alana in Activism, Depression, Islamophobia, LGBT, Marxism, Racism.
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When I was asked to speak at the National Equality March for LGBT rights in Washington, DC on October 11, 2009, I took that opportunity to speak out against Islamophobia, which may seem like an odd choice. What I said in my speech was this:

“I believe that for this movement to be strong enough to create real and lasting change, it will have to expand across borders. Not just state borders, but also the obstacles that continue to divide us both inside and outside the movement – like discrimination based on race, gender, or religious preference. Immediately after 9/11, Arabs and Muslims were instantly demonized, and Jerry Falwell said he believed the attack on the World Trade Center was a punishment from God; that the abortionists, feminists, and gays helped this to happen… Anyone who has ever been in the closet out of fear of retribution, hatred, and violence should know exactly how Arabs and Muslims feel when they are constantly suspected as terrorists.”

As a socialist, I think that identity politics divide and weaken the Left, so solidarity across all struggles for civil rights is crucial. When I worked to organize a coalition of all the LGBT activist groups in New York City to mobilize for the National Equality March, I constantly argued that we had to be principled anti-racists at the same time. The coalition ended up being overwhelmingly white, and I took the position that it was not enough to simply not be racist as individuals, but that active anti-racism had to be part of our work. There was verbal agreement, but I can’t say that it was something that was truly put into practice, for the most part. Today it still burns me up every time I hear a very dear friend of mine who is a gay Black man talk about how deeply hurtful it is for him to consistently see “no Black men” posted in otherwise appealing online dating profiles.

There is nothing more frustrating to me than arbitrary identity-based discrimination between people who should be on the same side. The advantage of Marxism is that, with a class-based understanding of society, the question of what side you are on depends on your material interests. Either you are part of the working majority who would benefit from higher wages, better social services, and social equality – or you are part of the elite capitalist minority that is only able to maintain power by keeping wages down, depriving people of social services, and keeping the majority from fighting for equality by exacerbating divisions based on race, gender, sexuality, immigration status, religious preference, and so on.  (more…)

It Gets Better October 15, 2010

Posted by alana in Activism, Depression, LGBT, Suicide.
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When five teenagers commit suicide within a span of three weeks, all of them as a result of being bullied at school for being gay, we are looking at a crisis that demands an emergency response. There has been some debate over what this response should look like, particularly around the “It Gets Better” video project created by Dan Savage last month. “It Gets Better” is a YouTube channel dedicated to preventing gay teen suicide by offering encouraging messages from gay adults about how their lives will improve after high school. There has been immense popular response to the project, but there have been serious criticisms as well. Zoe Melisa wrote ten points under the title “Why I don’t like Dan Savage’s ‘It Gets Better’ project as a response to bullying” in her blog post that was republished by Queer Watch last week. Aside from pointing out that for many the message “It Gets Better” is just plain wrong, she condemns the project for encouraging people to wait for things to improve rather than take action themselves to make things better. She writes, “There is actually no path to change in this vision. Promoting the illusion that things just ‘get better,’ enables privileged folks to do nothing and just rely on the imaginary mechanics of the American Dream to fix the world.”  I agree with Melisa that simply saying “It Gets Better” is an inappropriate response to teen bullying – but I don’t think it’s a wholly inappropriate response to teen suicide.
This is where I think there is a disconnect:  Activists are generally inclined to prioritize solutions to the external (social) causes of gay teen suicide, such as the atmosphere of bigotry promoted by anti-gay legislation that creates the context for teenage bullying. Others are more concerned with addressing the internal (psychological) causes, namely depression. Of course, social and psychological factors can’t be completely isolated from each other. Social conditions have a profound impact on the way a person thinks and feels, and our emotions directly affect our perceptions of a social environment. While technically I agree with the tactical assessment that words of reassurance are no replacement for a strong fightback against the external causes of homophobia, bullying, and depression among LGBT youth, it still saddens me that people who are committed to that fight would harshly dismiss a project that aims to attack the problem from another angle, with intensely personal compassion and solidarity. I see no reason for these two strategies to be counterposed to one another. In such an extreme crisis, I am not convinced that the danger of gay teens failing to become political activists and just surviving high school is such a terrible threat. I also don’t believe that “It Gets Better” will convince people who might have become active to simply wait instead. On the contrary, I think there is some evidence that people who see the videos become more aware of just how widespread homophobia really is and how deeply it affects real people’s lives, and that this understanding inspires many of them to do more. Certainly there has been an increase in activism lately after a relative lull around gay marriage and opposing DADT – for example, over 300 people participated in the “Homophobia Kills” die-in staged at Grand Central Station in New York City on October 10th and a few thousand turned out to protest a Mormon church leader’s homophobic remarks in Salt Lake City on October 7th.
Among those of us socialists who have been involved in the struggle for gay rights, it almost goes without saying that “It Gets Better” is not enough on its own, and that a real change in people’s living conditions, which are shaped by laws and social norms, is necessary to end bigoted bullying and to prevent gay teen suicide. It’s not that this isn’t true – I believe wholeheartedly that it is. But it is also very telling that radicals will often refer to these gay teen suicides as “murder” rather than suicide. Yes, calling it murder is a political statement meant to expose the fault of those who help perpetuate a culture of homophobia that endangers the lives of LGBT people, which is important — but it also ensures that the conversation we are having is not about suicide or depression. Most of us are not prepared to discuss suicide because it is a very complex and emotional issue, and mental illness is a subject that is completely silenced in our society. In fact, homosexuality was very effectively repressed and silenced from the late 19th century until 1973 precisely by categorizing it as a mental illness! It is deeply ingrained in us that emotional problems are completely unique to each individual, and are meant for every individual to bear alone, or perhaps with some private help from a professional. A collective approach to matters of mental health is almost unimaginable – but I think there was a hint of something like that in the “It Gets Better” project.
The hard truth is that whether we are fighting an oppressive social system or struggling with an oppressive psychological problem, it is going to take a lot of hard work for things to get any better – but a diet of hard truths and tireless struggle must be supplemented with gentle compassion and hope. Political victories are absolutely essential, but no less necessary for our survival is something as simple as an occasional hand on our shoulder and someone saying, “I know just how you feel.” “It Gets Better” found a way to collectivize this personal gesture, and without mistaking it for a political program, I’d like to say that I’m grateful for it.
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